Good intentions gone with the wind... just like that
i would appreciate it if you could reciprocate and return arvind's stuff that's in your possession like he did yours. i honestly don't see any reason for you to cling on to them as it would only exacerbate the healing process. i don't know what transpired between you and him during the last few days of his life but i know this much, he must have been hurt beyond anything imaginable for him to resort to something that drastic. i don't wanna dwell on this issue anymore for it's pointless but i need closure and so does my family. there is nothing much left to say. we'll be leaving soon. please return his things asap.
rgds
murali balasundaram
** I thought Arvind's mind was wrong about everyting, but I now know why Arvind despised you. I need not explain myself further.
posted by cEntuRIoNniess @ 2:12 PM
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You 'now know why Arvind despised you'? What a spiteful, nasty thing to say. What the heck do you know about the complexities of love and bonding in our family? Grow up, girl. And remember, we treated you with utmost civility and courtesy at the crematorium and this cheap spite is your response? Notice too, that you did not address the issue in Murali's note. Sly of you. And so the question beckons: is this how you talked to Arvind in his last days? As said, grow up.
saras
Now you know why arvind despised me?? This, coming from a person he totally abhorred & someone who literally killed him! I’ve come to realize that there’s no point in reasoning with a self-absorbed, obtuse person like yourself. What goes around comes around. Need I say more. SCREW YOU & YOUR LOT!
p.s. nice cheap shot. apt for your level of maturity. keep it up!
To Saras and Murali,
The thing that crosses my mind is that, even if what you said was true about Erin, you are obviously forsaking the fact that even the both of you as his family, weren't good enough reasons for him to stay. Did he leave loving notes for your family? What were the last things YOU said to each other?
I honestly believe that you had better look within yourselves before you come on to someone else's blog, and accuse that person of killing the love of her life. She had so much concern for your family since that tragic day, and has had to face horrendous accusations from you and your lot. All the while, mourning the loss of her best friend.
All this anger is completely misdirected. The one person whom it should be targeted at has taken the easy way out and left an abyss in all our hearts. The deed is done, he is gone. Let us move on and focus on loved ones that do value life.
Erm - foodie queen and erin - if we can get back to the crux of the matter - we are really not into what you think of us. The crux is simply this - Arvind returned all of Erin's things and wanted his back. Erin till now has never addressed this issue. We just want his things returned to his parents. That's all. Every other talk is superfluous to this request. And notice - you never, never addressed this issue at all. That, is really dishonest.
saras
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